Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Effortless Respect

In the Fitzroy Gardens opposite the Mary MacKillop Centre

This week Peter was not physically about the school due to two major PDs.  On Monday and Tuesday he received training to lead a program called “Seasons for Growth”, and on Thursday and Friday he will be attending the annual ACCESS Chaplaincy Conference which will focus on family issues this year.  Both have coincided in the same week.

“Seasons for Growth” is a well grounded program that helps children who have experienced personal grief and loss to make better sense of their feelings.  The training Peter received was at the Mary MacKillop Centre, East Melbourne, and given through the staff there.  One of the strengths of the program was the emphasis on the uniqueness of the individual.

We are all unique.  When we discover this (usually in a profound way) that we are the only ‘me’ there is, we will alter the way we look toward others.  Instead of comparing ourselves to others and labelling them in some way, we discover a new kind of respect.  Our interest in their story grows because of their own uniqueness.  They are a precious gift into our world and we show this in the way we listen and respond.  Their part in our lives is of great value.  Everybody deserves to be appreciated and understood in this way.

Insights are an important part of Life’s experience.  These “Ah ha” moments may grow out of meditative thought, a timeless book or an excellent PD.  Our interest in others becomes limitless.  We listen with effortless respect. 

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